Brainstorm, Map and Incident Recal your Family dynamics deeply with them.

(see first, second and third entries in the previous chapter)

Always show them love and support.

Go with them to the Rehab Centre and visit and keep in touch while they are there.

Always tell them you love them and to love themselves.

Hug and kiss them like it’s going out of Fashion.

Get them to open up in detail about how they feel about their past and how they want their future to be.

Develop a regular time table of Social stuff to do to stop them feeling disconnected and isolated.

Listen patiently to how they feel and watch their body language too.

If they don’t open up use your intuition to tell them what you think is going on and how you think they are feeling. Most likely you will be right.

Keep an eye on them, notice any patterns in their substance abuse and talk to them frankly about it.

Regular Bible study is very important too as God Cares deeply about all of us.