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TOXIC FAMILY MEMBERS

That can lead to addiction

 

MOTHER /STEP MOTHER​
 

Did you ever have a Mother who always played the victim and acted as if she was always hard done by and at the same time wanted you to trust her and tell her everything so she could then tell the rest of the family? 

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Did you have a Mother who was controlling, belittling bitchy, jealous and mean and made you feel like trash i.e. very uncomfortable and not able to be yourself?

 

Did you ever have a Mother who was enmeshed, i.e. didn’t respect your boundaries wanted to know all your business and was at times inappropriate and too personal?

 

Did you ever have a Mother who was hypersensitive i.e. a simple conversation could explode into an argument and it’s your fault by the way!

Who also made everything about herself and expected constant attentiveness and openness from others?

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FATHER / STEP FATHER

 

Did you have a Father who was controlling and belittling of your opinions and goals and made you feel like trash, very uncomfortable and not able to be yourself?

 

Did you have a Father who was a forever busy workaholic and never there to spend quality time with you?

 

Did you have a Father who was there but emotionally absent?

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Where you ever sexually abused by your father or male family friend who then made you out to be a liar?

 

Where you ever physically abused by your father?

Or was he aggressive and volatile?

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SIBLING/ COUSIN

 

Did you ever have a competitive sibling or cousin who always had to go one better then you and strongly into one upmanship?

  

Did you ever have a sibling or cousin who always telling tales on you and making you look bad?

 

Did you ever have a sibling or cousin who always but you down because you weren’t as clever as them?

 

Did you ever have a sibling or cousin who always took and damaged your things, but never shared and was very stingy?

 

 

GRAND MOTHER

  

Did you ever have a Grandmother who was constantly restricting and critical especially of your size and appearance?

 

 

Did you ever have a Grandmother who was constantly contrary, believing her standards were better than yours?

 

Did you ever have a Grandmother who was Religiously self-righteous cold and grandiose?

  

Did you ever have a Grandmother who was constantly negative and argumentative?

 

 

 

 

GRAND FATHER

 

Did you ever have a Grandfather who was constantly aggressive and thought his masculinity was everything?

 

Did you ever have a Grandfather who was materialistic and stern and unapproachable?

 

Did you ever have a Grandfather who was cold and grandiose?

 

Did you ever have a Grandfather who was constantly negative and belittling or your goals?

 

 

AUNT

 

Did you ever have an Aunt who was very Grandiose and thought her taste was the best in the world and was also very bossy and controlling?

 

Did you ever have an Aunt who was very selfish and stand offish?

 

Did you ever have an Aunt who was very rude, aggressive, critical, bossy and controlling?

 

 

Did you ever have an Aunt who was very opinionated and thought she knew everything and you certainly didn’t?

 

 

 

UNCLE

 

Did you ever have an Uncle who was a huge womaniser and a cheat in all aspects of life?

 

Did you ever have an Uncle who liked to pick and chose when he wanted to contact you but ignores you when you contact him?

 

Did you ever have an Uncle who thought he was untouchable?

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Did you ever have an Uncle who was very deceitful and full of himself liked to take but never liked giving?

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